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Sit down girl
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One of the most important changes you need to make is to get your feminised man to sit down when going to the toilet. This single act really emphasises his feminisation and has the side benefit of making sure there are no splashes to clean up around the toilet afterwards. In fact it is this logic that you should use to get him to sit down.
I started the sit down campaign by constantly highlighting the splashes around the toilet and the toilet seat, even when there weren’t any they would be invented. By constant reinforcing the problem of splashes he will eventually give in. It might sound strange but it is very satisfying to see my girl sitting on the toilet with his knickers round his ankles and his little skirt across his thighs.
Of course it is necessary to continue to monitor this and ensure he always sits down. One way is to occasionally check with him by asking if to confirm he always sits on the toilet. Another way is is to regularly go in the toilet with him when he needs to pee and stand over him.
It’s worth the small effort and of course puts you as the mistress completely in charge of things, as it should be.
No trousers in the house
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It wasn’t so difficult to get him to wear make up. However there were two big stages to get to. Firstly Lady A need to feminise his willy and balls. Although she had him wearing female clothes, his genitals always brought things back to the fact he was masculine. She had avoided the word cock as this was just too macho. She used willy as this was more ‘little boy’ and had it shaved but she needed it feminised. She tried tying pink ribbons onto it but it was still being called a willy. She had a brainwave. She also decided she needed to get a little tougher.
“I want you to leave a bit of hair above your willy when you shave” she instructed him. “In the shape of a small triangle.
“But that would make it look like a women’s pussy” he said.
“Yes precisely. You now have a pussy and that thing between your legs is a clitty.”
He started to say how you can’t just rename it as a female’s genitals. She had to be direct.
“You are wearing female clothes so you’re more feminine now so you now have a pussy and a clitty. That’s what it’s now called. End of discussion”.
As his pubic hair grew. he had to shape it in a triangle. Lady A ensured she told him how lovely it looked and how sexy he was. She then dropped the bombshell. “Now you have a pussy and a clitty, you’re a girl. I will refer to you only as a girl when no one else can hear.”
Now the key objective of the process, to get him/her to wear skirts and dresses whenever possible. he should wera skirts and dresses as normal wear only reverting to trousers for work and to change when he was at home and to wear female clothes at weekends. he was now the house wife and would serve her.
Lady A realised that she needed to be tough again. No more persuasion. She had the upper hand now so she just needed a final push.
It was a romantic evening meal, one Friday evening at home in September. Prepared by Lady A’s part time housewife and girl. They sat down, her girl opened the wine. They at their meal and drank the wine and were feeling quite relaxed. Lady A had made a point of being quite direct that night, giving her instruction. “Dinner now girl” and “Good girl” and so on.
Her girl cleared up the dishes. “Sit down in here please girl” ordered lady A as he/she was stacking the dishwasher. “Now!”
Lady A’s girl came in sheepishly and sat down.
“I”ve been thinking my pretty girl”, she said. “I love to see you in skirts and dresses. I think they suit you and you are so much more gentle and compliant”.
“Thank you Lady A”, said the girl.
“So I’ve made a decision and I want you to follow this. I don’t ask for much but this you will do.”
“Ok anything Lady A”
“From now on you will wear only skirts and dresses. No more trousers unless necessary. You obviously have to wear trousers outside the house, to work and if someone comes round but otherwise you WILL wear skirts and dresses only. If you have to wear trousers such as for work, you will wear only knickers underneath. When you pick me up at night in the car from work or a night out you will do so in a skirt. This is not negotiable. It’s a rule”.
He stared at her. “I’m not sure that’s practical”
“I don’t care, you will make it work.
Please shave your legs.
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So Lady A had her husband wearing dresses, skirts and tights. There was a problem. He had male hair on his legs which showed through his new tights. Plus some hair on his chest which showed on the low cut dress. Worse than that, his genitals were quite hairy and this looked far too masculine. Time but a big step.
It was a warm evening and Lady A was feeling sexy and persuaded her husband to put on his dress but without tights. Time to play the unattractive card again.
“You have such lovely long legs. Sooo sexy” she said to him. I love to see them in a short dress or skirt”. He looked very embarrassed but also he liked the attention and having Lady A so attracted to him.
She looked longingly at him. “Couldn’t we just remove the hair on your legs and chest. It would look so sexy.”
He was again, not keen on this idea. Lady A kept on and eventually produced hair removal cream. She led him into the bathroom and applied it. he was quite embarrassed again but the idea was also exciting.
“We cant use this on your willy and balls so we can just shave them” she stated after washing the hairs from the legs and chest down the shower drain.
He objected. However she offered to do it for him and led him naked into the living room. She ordered him to lay on the floor with his legs wide and she would shave it for him. Again she liked it with an erotic act and he complied. he did enjoy it.
She made him put his dress back on. “Some thing is still wrong” she said. “You need to fill out your dress at the front. You need a bra”.
“Men don’t need bras. There is nothing to support”, he objected.
“Yes I know but the dress doesn’t fit properly so it’s just to make it work”. With that she went upstairs and came back with a large bra which she made him put on. Again she complimented him on just how lovely he looked an d rewarded him with a great evening of…. well you know what.
There was still a problem. Although she had got him to wear female clothes at times, they were still associated with sex and she really wanted him in female clothes every time possible. He ha to think of female clothing as the norm.
His First Dress
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The dress arrived in a couple of days. Lady A was waiting with it when he got home from work.
“It’s arrived I can’t wait to see it on”. She insisted so he had to put it on. It fitted beautifully, it was stretchy material, bright red with white dots.
“Please my dear you can’t wear such a lovely dress with boxer shorts”. She went off again to get some knickers.
“I don’t think you will need boxers anymore, why don’t we get rid of them? They are so un-sexy” She was playing the unattractive card again. Successfully.
“Why don’t you get rid of the boxers entirely?” She said.
Lady A insisted they go to the supermarket later to buy a supply of small cotton knickers (after he had changed back to male clothes of course).
While at the supermarket Lady A made the point that his dress and skirts were quite short so his legs could get cold. She picked up a box of extra large black tights. “These will keep you warm. We’ll get you these too.”
That night lady A asked him nicely to put on the dress and tights, he already had knickers on. “Oh what a pretty girl you are” she said smiling gently.
“Well I’m not a girl, the excitement is about me as a man wearing these clothes, isn’t it?”
“No my dear you’re a beautiful girl in your new clothes. Would you like to prepare dinner? Please keep the dress on as you look so beautiful. I really fancy you” She had him. Next stage depilation. But how to get him to shave his legs and chest…and more?
Feminising her husband
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It all began around February 2011. Lady A later admitted to her husband/wife that she had had a plan: she really wanted her husband to be feminised. He was completely unaware of the longer term plan but now enjoys it too. Why did she want us to have a different relationship, a female led relationship with a feminised husband? Two reasons really. Firstly control. A man in a dress, high heels and make up will act more feminine, more gentle and is more submissive. Lady A does like to be in control. A man will be more willing to do housework and serve her in feminine clothes and let her be in control. Secondly, a point rarely made in the feminisation blogs, it is an incredible turn on for both.
Lady A absolutely does not want to turn her husband into a real girl, just a feminised man. She wants a sexual relationship with her partner but she just wants him feminised and submissive and to follow her instructions. Our relationship has nothing to do with those blogs where women turn their men into actual females with hormones and surgery. Oh no, this is not just more realistic but we believe how most couples would live in the real world.
What was in it for her husband? He found that the feel and flow of female clothes were much nicer than male clothes. Silky nighties were much better than cotton pyjama bottoms. A soft cotton skirt felt so much freer around his (her) legs compared to a pair of trousers which were restrictive. It was a great turn on, in particular the humiliation of it all. Being called a naughty girl and to be disciplined was highly erotic. Which takes us to the final point. For him it was to be able to escape the social expectations and responsibilities of a man. The excitement of breaking social norms is highly erotic and exciting.
So she laid her trap and picked her moment. One evening at the height of passion a small request… sort of. Close to his bursting point she whispered that she had a naughty idea. “What?” was his breathless and short response.
“Oh I’m not sure” she mumbled.
“Please, just tell me” he said a little frustrated as she’d stopped.
“No it’s ok, forget it”
“Please just tell me what you wanted.”
“Would you wear something for me?”
“What?” he said yet again, his frustration mounting a little with his increasing desire.
“Please don’t be annoyed but it would be nice if you wore something naughty while we made love. It would be exciting.”
He waited to hear what Lady A wanted, “Wear what?”
“Knickers?” she whispered nervously. He thought for a few seconds. “Knickers?” He thought a little more. “Why not. OK.”
Lady A, then just plain A, rushed out and came back with a pair of black g string knickers. He put them on, they didn’t really fit or hold anything in but the love making came to its desired conclusion with a whole lot more excitement.
Rule 1, link encouraged feminisation to sex.
So Lady A had made the first move and things had now changed. Her husband had worn an item of women’s clothing for the first time and she had associated it with great sex. The stage was set for the next stage, to move things up a notch. They continued to use knickers for a couple of times in their love making before Lady A ‘couldn’t find’ the black g string and introduced a pair of lighter coloured knickers but this time with a frill, again at an advanced stage of lovemaking. There was a protest but she pointed out that there was no real difference they were knickers and he’d worn them before and he should put them on. So put them on, he thought ok it’s not that different. Over the next few days she introduced increasingly feminine knickers into the love making and finally she produced a pair with a frilly lace attached skirt which largely covered the knicker. They looked like a small skirt. She had got him to use knickers every time they made love and got him into something resembling a very short skirt ready for the next stage. This would be a big jump and she had to be careful.
“Oh it looks like you’re wearing a little skirt in those knickers” she said jokingly as the first part of her move
“Yes I suppose so” he replied.
“How do you feel? They look really nice actually.”
“Yes they feel nice. Nice material, it feels naughty like I shouldn’t be wearing them”
“Yes that’s the excitement isn’t it?” she added “It looks like you’re wearing a skirt. It’s nice. I really enjoy seeing you in them. It’s quite exciting.”
“Ok” he replied, “it does feel quite nice”
It’s very important to bring your man into the discussion and to admit he enjoys the experience. Once on the feminisation path men will see the benefits and start to enjoy it.
Rule 2, get him to agree that wearing feminine clothing is good.
So far he thinks it’s just a game they play in the bedroom and adds some spice. Lady A said no more but the plan was ready for the next stage. Part way through their next love making she asked him if he wanted to do something very exciting. “Of course” he said.
She went off and came back with a little black sports skirt with an elastic waistband.
“I’m not wearing a skirt” he protested.
“It’s no different to those knickers with the frill and you enjoyed them. They are in the wash so you could wear these instead and there’s no need to take them off or slide the front to one side. It makes a lot of sense”.
Men relate well to logic and when feminising your man you need to use logic. Lady A understood this. They were the same as the knickers but without the hassle. After some hesitation he agreed as the logic was there so he slipped them on. Once they finished lovemaking he took them straight off as he had with the knickers. However she had got him into a skirt, even if it was just for a short time. Success; and now for the next stage. To get him to wear a skirt around the house. The next big step.
The trap was set again. She produced the skirt again as before and it was a little easier to get him to wear it during love making than previously. However this time once they had finished she stopped him removing them and insisted they cuddle first. Lady A kept him in a hug for some minutes to get him used to wearing a skirt outside sex. Then she suggested they have a cup of tea in bed. Could he go and make it for her and bring it up. She threw him his tee shirt but suggested he keep the skirt on as no one would see and since he had been wearing it he might as well keep it on to go downstairs.
“Why not it’s just an item of clothing. What’s the problem?”
He did exactly that, albeit reluctantly. he brought the tea up. He’s served her for the first time in a skirt. This was going well. So onto the next stage, buying him his own skirt together. It’s important to get your man involved in buying his female clothes.
They went to a charity shop, which is always a good place, to look for some clothes for her, she said. She found a very short pleated black skirt and a short frilly grey cotton summer skirt.
“What do you think of these?” she asked her husband. “Feel them. Nice aren’t they?”
“Yes very nice although I’m not sure they are your style” he replied.
“What do you think of the material. It’s not fair is it? Woman get to wear much nicer material don’t you think? Feel it. Do you like it?”
He fell for it and agreed it was very sexy material and felt lovely.
“Good. They are not for me they are for you. We had some great fun playing our new games, it was exciting don’t you think? It would be nice to carry on playing. I’m going to buy them for you for our game”. And she did as he looked on a little shocked
When they got home she insisted he try them on. He was embarrassed but she asked so nicely,. “Oh please, it would be so nice for our ‘game’.
So of course he did as she asked.
“Oh you need to take off your boxers and put on some knickers”. She went and got a pair and made him changed into them.
“Ok let’s go up and play” she said with a broad smile. “But let’s have a coffee first. Can you make it for me please?”
She now had him wearing skirts and knickers around the home and making drinks for her. This was was going very well. Ready for the next stage.
Another trip to the charity shop. This time she found a blouse. Now she had him wearing skirts, knickers and a blouse. It was still associated with sex so another stage was planned. Nightwear.
Lady A’s husband usually wore pyjama bottoms and a tee shirt to bed. At the same time as the move to skirts, she started her campaign to get rid of the pyjama bottoms. She told him how un-sexy pyjama bottoms were and how old fashioned they were. It’s important to appeal to a man’s thought process. Compare his pyjamas to an old man’s clothes. Believe me, that will work. “Let’s just throw them away. They are what an old man would wear.”
That of course hit the spot and he agreed. So now he just wore a tee shirt with no bottoms. Not bad but only half way there. Small steps, now to get rid of the tee shirt. Lady A used the same tactic about how un-sexy it was to wear tee-shirts to bed. He had to stop wearing tee-shirts and he went to bed naked. This was good. It’s ok to have your man naked but you really want him feminised.
So one cold night she offered one of her larger satin nighties in a dark mauve colour. After explaining that there was little difference to a skirt and he wore skirts with no problem so he could put it on for now. He did as it was cold. She had him in nighties. It is important to praise him and say how lovely he looked and how attractive he was. Lady A did this regularly and let him know just how sexy it was. And it was for her.
Another shopping trip. They ‘just happened’ to be wandering around a clothes shop when Lady A found a pink slik nightie with thin shoulder straps. Again she asked him to feel it and agree how nice it was. She then pointed out how his current nightie was a little tight and anyway it was hers. “Lets get you this one” she said.
He obviously objected. However Lady a applied logic again. “Well you wear a nightie every night already we should just get you one that fits you and is yours.”
She bought the pink one in pink and explained that he was wearing a nightie to bed so a ‘slight change’ in colour was no problem, was it?”
Now she had him wearing nighties to bed every night. She made it clear every night that it was very sexy and attractive for her.
So onto the next stage. One evening she asked him to wear the skirt and blouse for the evening. Please just for me she said. “A build up for our early night in bed.” She said with a big smile.
He agreed and had to agree that it felt nice after she kept asking him. She wanted to look through mail order clothes and came to the dresses. She enjoyed asking him what styles he liked. “So if you had to choose one what one would you choose?” she asked innocently.
He picked a short red skater style dress. “Ok let’s order that one for you” she said.
“I’m not wearing a dress, what on earth are of thinking” he protested.
“Well you’re wearing a skirt and you enjoy it and you wear a pink nightie to bed so this isn’t any different. Please just for me” and with that she ordered it.
The next article describes how we ramped up the feminisation with Lady A’s husband becoming her girl.
How it all started – our feminisation game.
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Where do we start? We are a couple in our 50s in our second (and final) marriages. We met about 6 years ago, introduced by a mutual friend. We’re outwardly quite normal really, living in East London, semi detached house etc. both working in professional jobs. We do have a secret though. We have discovered feminisation. In our secret world we are Lady A and her girlie wife. We don’t indulge in this extreme stuff you see on the web with pain, hormone treatments and all that nonsense (if it’s all real that is). No, we have a lifestyle which we can’t always follow fully, but we try our best to do what we can. It’s exciting and a massive turn on.
What exactly is it? Well Lady A’s sometime husband, sometime housewife is required to wear knickers at all times, even to work. He has to wear a pink nightie or pink baby doll to bed every night. Every weekend and most evenings he has to wear a dress or skirt in the house with female clothes, including a bra. Whenever in female clothes and at times in male clothes, he will be referred to as ‘she’ and called good girl, bad girl as appropriate. So how did this all happen?
Lady A’s husband had no idea he would enjoy this or want it. Lady A however knew just what she wanted. She was very sure what she wanted: to be in charge and to have a very feminine husband. Or to be more accurate, a male wife. She was also very clear that she wanted her man to perform the sexual functions only a man could do but under her control and direction. She asked herself why only women get to show their legs and body for all to see and a man is covered up. She would really enjoy seeing her man’s legs, seeing him in tight clothes, looking at his bum, seeing him in beautiful soft flowing clothes. Why not? He had no idea what was coming of course.
This was therefore a plan carefully implemented by Lady A some three years ago. A carefully planned series of tiny traps into which her part husband part girlie fell into completely. It wasn’t without it’s problems for her as any man is conditioned by social norms and is resistant to being feminised, of course. We’ll describe her plan and how she did it in the next post.
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